Where Things Stand

Hell if I know. NY Guy is going through a lot right now. I'm just trying to play the role of supportive boyf-- uh, whatever the hell I am. He's "between careers" at the moment, through no fault of his own, but as a result he's been deeply contemplating options for his future. The one that seems to be winning out involves moving to another part of the state.

Obviously, that sucks.

I mean, I know full well that we've only known each other three weeks, and I'd be more freaked out if he was basing major life decisions on my involvement in his life, but it is still sad to hear him talk about the possibility. Constantly.

Our "relationship," if you will, has been on auto-pilot lately; still in the "take it slow" stage, but with all this, I'm thinking the "where do we stand" conversation may be necessary soon. I don't want to give up on anything yet, but I'm also not sure if I want to keep up at the pace we're going if he doesn't see his future involving me at all.

On an oddly coincidental note, I got a message from Out of Town Guy out of the blue the other day. Turns out he may be moving to my town, at about the same time that NY Guy could be moving away. Hmmm.....